EQ
(Emotional Quotient) isn't just a "designer" fad that's going to fade,
and many are interested to see what directions it
will take in the coming years. Here are some of
predictions:1. Emotional
Intelligence will become a household word. Parents
will actively teach their children emotional
intelligence along with their manners, chores and
life skills. Children will learn to accept and
welcome their emotions, talk about them, label them
correctly, manage them, and choose appropriate
responses.
2. Parents will demand the
inclusion of an EQ program in day care, public and
private schools, and universities. They will demand
EQ credentials for nannies, child care providers,
youth workers, spiritual leaders, and teachers.
3. We will move beyond diversity
to multiculturalism; working and living with people
from different backgrounds and cultures. We will
therefore have to rely more on the universal
"language" of emotions to reach commonality and
understand what's going on. We will have to rely
more on nonverbal communication. 70-90% of
communication even between two people who share a
mother language, is nonverbal.
4. One person will ask another
person "How are you today?" and instead of not
listening to the predictable and meaningless
response of "fine," they will listen carefully as
the other person tells them how they are feeling
emotionally, physically, mentally, and spiritually.
The person asked the question will know how he or
she feels in all these areas and be able to
articulate it, and the listener will understand the
information and know how to use it. It will smooth
the inner world for each of them, and therefore
smooth the working in the outer world.
5. As globalization and the rapid
exchange of masses of information continues to
increase, we reach critical mass,and have to rely on
our intuition and nonver balcommunication skills.
6. From this massive cultural
blending and exchange (culture is learned; not
carved in stone) we will extract the
health-promoting practices and adopt them. We will
wipe out what Mother Theresa termed the worst
disease on earth - "the isolation in the West."
People in the West will no longer be ashamed to
"admit" they "need people". (And we do not need
people to be in the same room with us, we need
emotional connection with people and healthy
interdependence.) We'll be looking at why wellness
statistics in some other countries surpass ours in
the US and adopting some new customs!
7. The "family" will expand.
Proverbs around the world tell us that the feet go
more easily where the heart is. Predictions for the
future are that nearly half of working adults will
be both single AND over 40. Businesses will
recognize the need for a more emotionally
intelligent workplace, as un-paired adults working
longer hours dominate the work scene, who will need
more emotional and social connection at the office.
Corporations will understand the benefits of
establishing an emotionally intelligent culture in
their office.
8. Science and Spirituality
Blend. Alliances such as the work the Dalai Lama
has done with brain researchers at the University of
Wisconsin will be commonplace. Technology will
improve and there will be more and better ways to
measure and quantify data about emotions and the
brain.
9. The Left and the Right will
Also Meet. People will actively work to develop
both their left and their right brains, and the
connection between the two. There will be programs
for children and adults available in the schools, at
work, through agencies, coaches, and faith
organizations that teach how to do this.
10. Intuition becomes
mainstream. Because the volume off actual
information will be overwhelming, and the problems
more complex, we will rely more on intuition, an EQ
competency.
11. Immune deficiency diseases and
stress will continue to increase, so there will be
an emphasis on the wellness benefits of emotional
intelligence. The so-called "negative" emotions
weaken our immune system, which is our health.
Therefore understanding emotions and emotional
self-management is crucial. Treating the
"emotional" component of a disease or illness will
be accepted; it will be the norm. Medical care in
the US will be moving toward the Eastern model with
its emphasis on prevention. Insurance will cover EQ-type
programs. "Stress management" program s will be
replaced by EQ Programs. Individuals will be given
a discount on their insurance for developing their
EQ, just as we are now given a discount on our home
insurance for installing a fire alarm, or a discount
on our car insurance for taking defensive driving or
having air bags. Resilience, an EQ competency is
the air bag for our stress tolerance.
12. The legal system will
incorporate this knowledge. Court-mandated programs
for repeat offenders will broaden from "anger
management" and "Twelve step" programs to include,
or be replaced by, EQ programs.
13. The statement
that "anger kills" will be taken seriously,
particularly the effect of anger on men. Studies
regarding emotional management, heart attacks and
men, such as the one at Duke University Medical
Center and be incorporated into wellness programs.
14. The average EQ profile for men
and women is the same, but they differ in how they
do with the different competencies. With increased
EQ abilities and better communication between the
sexes, along with recognition of the vast health
benefits of a viable marriage that nurtures both
parties (and the children), the divorce rate will
finally stabilize and start to diminish.
15. The use of prescription
medications for emotional illness will start to
decline as people learn how to manage their emotions
better, experience less stress because others do as
well, and atmospheres at home and at work are
achieved that are conducive to wellness.
16. Corporations will have active
anti-mobbing programs and schools will have
anti-bullying programs.
17. The senior worker will be
highly sought after because EQ will be valued, and
EQ generally increases with age. Resilient seniors
with good EQ skills are committed to lifelong
learning. Their continued ability to 'build' their
brains combined with their EQ competencies makes
them relatively stress-tolerant, and excellent
leaders, managers and team-players. With increased
wellness, many will chose not to retire. Work will
continue to be team-oriented, and at least one
"senior" will be considered obligatory on any team.
18. Business recruiters will
replace the term "soft skills" with "EQ skills" and
demand them in candidates.
19. EQ courses will be a mandatory
part of the core curriculum for medical school, law
school, and business school. EQ seminars will be
offered for CEUs for doctors, lawyers, teachers,
psychologists, and other professionals.
20. We will welcome a Diversity of
Psychological Type. Introversion will be recognized
as a legitimate personality style and living and
work conditions will be adjusted to accommodate both
introverts and extraverts.
Interest in EQ is international.
In fact, in a recent group of EQ coaches I trained
(through Internet and teleclasses), we had
participants from Bermuda, New Zealand, and China as
well as different parts of the US. I routinely
receive inquiries from all over the world. It's not
uncommon to hear clients and coaches say, "This is
the missing piece.'" It may well be the glue that
holds together the pieces of our world in the coming
globalization and multi-enculturation.
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